If you feel that you are rated as ‘second best’ among your family and friends, beware that you do not take to viewing yourself as so, you are not! You are amazing and unique and you should never allow yourself to be put down, ridiculed or disrespected. Of course, that doesn’t mean to say that you have to go the complete opposite and be domineering and overbearing. Being well and truly balance in your everyday interaction with family and friends has to be the best for not only you, but for those around you. If you find it somewhat daunting to, psychologically, raise yourself up from second best, a good place to start your transformation is by enhancing the ba-qua chart. If you are reasonably confident in yourself but just need a bit of a boost you can enhance the Northeast section ‘Knowledge and Self-Cultivation’ area of your home. The colour blue can help and perhaps a water feature added. Or, if you are not that confident it would be best to enhance the South area of your home, which is the ‘Fame and Reputation’ section, where you can you can use the colours red, orange or purple which is bound to boost your confidence. And if you want to know more about ‘Second Best’ go to the ‘All Good News’ article
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